And you're defending something because you're shooting back with plenty of passion here. Like I said, its nothing against you, its against the game you play and the concept it holds. So its fun for you -- great! But why does it have to take so long to level and do stuff?
Actually I'm just VERY argumentative when I disagree with something, ask Azrael. Also, I type very, very quickly and don't know when to shutup.
Anyhooo - Why does it take so long to reach level 99 in Kingdom Hearts? Damnit, I want that Ultima Weapon! Why do the pieces hardly ever drop? Why does it take so long to get everything in a game? I want all the music in Smash Brother Brawl, do I really have to play hours upon days of games with items on, when I hate items? Why can't I accumulate the money for the Chicago Type-writer in a single play-through of Resident Evil 4? Do I really have to play it twice, maybe even three times just to enjoy using that weapon?
I mean, we're talking about an RPG here, and a pretty tame one at that. RPGs are based around spending time with your character, especially the non-japanese ones which have always been far more open-ended, and in WoW I can hit max level in less than 5 days played on a character. Where I come from, playing single-player games like World of Xeen, Might and Magic 6,7, & 9, and Ultima 2, that's remarkably easy in comparison, where leveling just one member of your party could take days of straight gameplay, and traveling from one place to another was a damn chore. Hell, World of Xeen was two games and you had to install both on the same harddrive to unlock the third game to combine both halves of the plane into one planet! This took
forever.
As for your specific points: Arbitrary numbers? Active guilds? Progress? Money? Quests? The only one I'll concede is that yes, you do have to schedule time to raid with multiple people, but ONLY if you want organization. You could also just log in and look for a PuG Raid, of which there are a great many, and raid only when you want to. As for progression, I've raided Naxx twice since the game came out and my character is more than ready to attack the next dungeon when its released. It didn't take 50 hours or play and a month to "gear up" it took 6 hours spread over two weeks. That's hardly a commitment or the draining of my soul.
Believe me, as someone who plays the game: If people are spending an exorbinate amount of time in the game it is because they have chosen to do so. A highly active guild doesn't matter if you're not logged in, there's only so much to do anyways and you can just hop in whenever you're online. Being the same level as your friends is a personal issue and one I won't address because that's not a construct of the game. Reserving multiple hours to raid is pretty simple, you either do or you do not. The dungeon isn't going anywhere, it will wait for you and the time that you have that sort of time to kill, and if you don't then don't worry about it. I can get to ANYWHERE in the game world from ANYWHERE within 5 minutes, travel is not an issue. Heck, it takes much longer to get around in most of the single player games I play. WoW is practically candy, its just so damn easy.
I still think your issue is with the player: If someone is worried about their e-peen, that's their issue and not mine or the game's. If someone really is so dedicated to trying to max out their toon, maybe they need to have something better to do... I do know what you're talking about: My brother is just like that at times. He will spend TONS of time to get that gem that offers +17 strength because he's not content with the +15 strength one... But hey, its there for the people who want to spend time with the game. If you don't have that kind of time, +2 strength really is a very laughable bonus, you'll never need it so don't worry about it. I mean, the only thing you need money for in this game anymore is vanity items. They don't affect your progress or punish you for not having them one bit, people just want them so they choose to go get them. Even the arbitrary numbers are literally just things floating around that you can totally ignore.
And don't take this as a personal attack or whatever, I don't get that impression from your posts but I want to just put it on the level. I just disagree, and I like having discussions with people who don't agree with me. Life is pretty easy and blind when all you do is seek out the people you agree with and ignore the rest.